first you have to recognize the pattern. evaluate what choices you made that affected the outcome and admit that you weren't merely a victim of unfortunate circumstance but an active contributor to your own struggle. then when you encounter another scenario, you have to make the deliberate effort to step back and reevaluate what your first instincts tell you to do, and choose differently. if you were indeed looking to change. i'm not sure if i'm ready for that.
no subject
then when you encounter another scenario, you have to make the deliberate effort to step back and reevaluate what your first instincts tell you to do, and choose differently.
if you were indeed looking to change. i'm not sure if i'm ready for that.