Then I will say two things, lacking definitive confirmation on this: if I know this person, I care about her feelings and how she is spoken of, so I reiterate my request for you to stop using that word. If I know her, she has experienced enough hurt over her life, it is of course impossible to fully prevent more, but this is an easy way to lessen it. Secondly I would say, if I know this person, I am not going to be going out of my way to inform her of things that would hurt her without good cause, for instance if it doesn't stop, but neither will I lie to her if it comes up.
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Then I will say two things, lacking definitive confirmation on this: if I know this person, I care about her feelings and how she is spoken of, so I reiterate my request for you to stop using that word. If I know her, she has experienced enough hurt over her life, it is of course impossible to fully prevent more, but this is an easy way to lessen it. Secondly I would say, if I know this person, I am not going to be going out of my way to inform her of things that would hurt her without good cause, for instance if it doesn't stop, but neither will I lie to her if it comes up.